｢できそう・・｣「頭が良さそう・・」これは誰かを見て、受けた印象ですね。
実際とても頭が良くても、なぜか「任せても大丈夫かな？この人で、出来るのかな？」と思われてしまう人がいたり、反対にそれほどでもないのに「できるヤツ」と、思われる人もいます。
この違いは、どこから来るのでしょう？これは、人が目から入った映像や、耳から入った音に左右されやすいからです。
印象で、人の能力は判断できませんが、評価は左右されがちです。
つまり、頭のいい人と見られるためには、「見た目」も大事なんですね。
それでは、頭がいいと見られる為に、どんなことに気を付けたらいいか、行動のポイントをご紹介しましょう。
見た目からも頭の良い印象を与える7つのポイント
頭のいい人と見られるための、7つの行動
清潔感のある身だしなみを心がける
爽やかさは、聡明感を与えます。また清潔感も、人の印象を大きく左右します。
例えば、実際に能力が高くても、「何だかボサッとした感じの人」と、能力は普通だけど、「とても爽やかな感じの人」では、後者に軍配が上がります。
これは、自己管理をきちんと行えているかどうかで、頭が良く見えるかどうかが、左右されてしまうからなのです。
太り気味でも、「切れ味」が悪く見えて損をすることがありますし、女性の場合は、ナチュラルメイクで香水も控えめだと、スマートな印象を与えたりするわけですね。
言葉使いと話し方に気をつける
きちんとした言葉使いと落ち着いた話し方が、頭の良い印象を与えます。
雑でも丁寧過ぎても、言葉使いが出来ていないと思われてしまいます。話し方も、「えーっと、」で始めたり、「つまり・要するに」を連発したり、語尾を伸ばしたりは、避けましょう。
また、流行の単語、難しい語彙、これらの連発も避けます。この語彙に関する事は、使い方次第で頭が良く見えたりもするので、ちょっと難しいところでしょうか。
ですが、無難なところで誰と話をしても、相手がきちんと理解できる話し方を心がけた方が良いでしょう。
これは、頭がいい人と見られるポイントの一つです。
他人の価値観を受け入れ、客観的に会話ができる
他人の意見と、自分の意見が異なることはよくあります。同じ人間ではないので、これは当たり前の事ですね。
ですが、価値観が異なると、色々な面でぶつかることも出てきてしまいます。
そんな時こそ、他人の価値観を客観的に、「一つの考え方、一つの見方」として受け入れることができると、その場をうまく取りまとめてゆくことができます。
そして、このような対処の仕方にも、頭の良さを感じさせられるわけです。
良いマナーを心がける
マナーの良さは、頭の良さと関係するの？と思われますが、状況をきちんと把握できるかどうか、状況に合わせられるかどうかは、やはり頭の良さにかかってきます。
周囲に合わせることができる、周囲の人に不快感を与えない、これはかなり大きなポイントになります。
挨拶、食事などのマナーも、言葉使いや身だしなみなどと同様に、スマートな印象を左右しますので気を付けましょう。
よく聞き、よく質問、的確な反応をする
良いマナーの一つに入りますが、会話の時は、他人の話はきちんと聞きましょう。
そして、疑問があったら、やはり質問しましょう。質問したからと言って、自分の価値が下がるわけではないのです。解ったような様子で話を進めることの方が、相手に“理解しているのかな？”という印象を与えてしまいます。
また、何か聞かれたりしたときには、まず相手がなぜその質問をしたか想像してみます。
時によっては、こちらのことを話題にしたいのではなく、相手に聞くことで、さらに自分に話題を振ってほしい、そんな希望が隠されていることが多々あります。
よく話を聞いていると、こんなことにも的確に対応できます。
自分の得意分野をもち、かつ謙虚な態度をとる
自分の好きなことを、しっかり掘り下げて、自分の専門分野を持ちましょう。どんなことでも良いのです。
これなら絶対、だれにも負けないぞ！そんな得意な分野があると、知らず知らずに、それはあなたの雰囲気となって現れます。
ですが、自分からそれを大公表せずに隠しておきます。話す機会が訪れたら、謙虚に、冷静に、少しずつ小出しに話します。
出し惜しみではなく、自分の知っていることを謙虚に話す、こうすると『能ある鷹は爪を隠す』といった印象を与えます。
自発的な行動
好奇心が旺盛で、自発的に行動を起こす人は、頭が良い人という印象を与えます。
これは自分のしたいこと、しようとしていることをきちんと理解し、そして実行に移すことで計画性があり、時間の管理が出来、自分に自信を持っている人、そう周囲が判断するからです。
いかがでしたか？
「時と場所、場合に応じた方法・態度・服装等の使い分け」が出来るかどうかで、頭が良いという印象を強く与えます。
せっかくの自分の資質を発揮する前に、見た目から過小評価されてしまわないように、ちょっとした事ですが気を配っておきましょう。
まとめ
頭のいい人と見られるための、7つの行動
- 清潔感のある身だしなみを心がける
- 言葉使いと話し方をする
- 他人の価値観を受け入れ、客観的な会話ができる
- 良いマナーを心がける
- よく聞き、よく質問、的確な反応をする
- 自分の得意分野をもち、かつ謙虚な態度をとる
- 自発的な行動をする
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